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[Alain’s friend]: yes
[Alain’s friend]: finishing this take home exam
[Alain’s friend]: it's justa lot
[Alain’s friend]: how are you...
Lain: now lang ko nakabalik La Salle
[Alain’s friend]: where were you?
Lain: ok lang, dami din ginagawa
Lain: home, doing a few stuff
[Alain’s friend]: I'm sleepy but won't sleep til i finish this
[Alain’s friend]: deadline tomorrow
[Alain’s friend]: final exams next week, kakapagod
[Alain’s friend]: have you read my offline messages
[Alain’s friend]: ?
Lain: ya, just read them
Lain: hard case yung kanya
[Alain’s friend]: he's a really good guy... nagkamali lang, salbahe asawa nya
[Alain’s friend]: naghahanap din sya, he wants to do God's will and been asking people
Lain: although I've answered your questions, I'
Lain: I'm not sure how I can answer his
[Alain’s friend]: pero kung iisipin anghirap ng lagay nya
[Alain’s friend]: kung di sya pwedeng mag asawa uli, mahirap yun, tapos di rin dapat mabuhay sa lust
[Alain’s friend]: I know it's really hard, it would be hard for me being a woman, and i can't imagine it for him being a man
Lain: Actually, although mas mahirap yung case nya, I can relate kasi I've been through similar experiences, as you may tell from my writings
[Alain’s friend]: no
Lain: does he know my site?
[Alain’s friend]: you didn't
[Alain’s friend]: he doesn't know your site
[Alain’s friend]: would you want me to tell him
[Alain’s friend]: ?
Lain: ok lang, we don't know each other
[Alain’s friend]: you were never married
Lain: and that would be why his case is more difficult
[Alain’s friend]: it's totally different, you can't comppare your experiences to his
[Alain’s friend]: and I'm him to be happy
[Alain’s friend]: i won't feel bad if he remarry
Lain: but you're not God
[Alain’s friend]: but God wants us to be happy too i think
Lain: Never to the point we disobey His words
[Alain’s friend]: and i think nabasa ko sa verses na binigay mo
[Alain’s friend]: may exception for infidelity
[Alain’s friend]: i don't know, but it's really hard... to be alone and resist lust
Lain: yung divorce yes, but not for remarriage
[Alain’s friend]: but he's great... he wants to do what is right
Lain: think of it this way, when his wife dies, he can still remarry
[Alain’s friend]: i know
[Alain’s friend]: pero kailngan pang maghintay na magkaganun
[Alain’s friend]: ?
Lain: yup
[Alain’s friend]: i can't see the point
[Alain’s friend]: anong reason ng Lord then?
Lain: it's to preserve the sanctity of marriage. It's either that or no sanctity at all. I prefer God's point of view
[Alain’s friend]: on things like this, like when I don't know what to do, i use my discenment, and when I see my churchmates here happily remaaried, i feel happy about them
[Alain’s friend]: of course we should prefer God's pt of view
[Alain’s friend]: medyo guilty din ako kasi dahil sa sinabi ko sakanya, isip sya ng isip, na hindi na nga pwedeng mag asawa at mag iisa na lang
[Alain’s friend]: kausap daw nya yung kaopisina nya, remarried, sabi nya mas mahirap kung mabubuhay sa lust
Lain: you only use discernment if there is no clear rule in the Bible; but as I showed you, the verses are direct, divorce may be allowed, but not remarriage while the partner is still aliove
Lain: one sin is no better than another
[Alain’s friend]: should i tell him these things?
[Alain’s friend]: lalo kolang sinasaktan yung tao
[Alain’s friend]: should I just stop talking to him, i guess that's mean
Lain: should you warn a person that the bridge is out even if it hurts his feelings? yes
Lain: there are more to this life than marriage, you can be unalone but unmarried
[Alain’s friend]: iba naman situation ito
[Alain’s friend]: pag sinabihan mo yung nasa bingit , na delikado, matutuwa yun
[Alain’s friend]: pero ito hindi matutuwa
[Alain’s friend]: pero dun sa article mo, iba sinabi mo
[Alain’s friend]: na it's hard ot be alone
Lain: that's what you think. nasa bingit din sya na magdesisyon ng mali na gugulo sa buong buhay nya
Lain: yup, it's hard to be alone, pero hindi naman marriage ang inoffer kung solution dun ha? remember?
[Alain’s friend]: and now you're saying it's ok to be alone
[Alain’s friend]: ano?
Lain: it's not ok to be alone, but marriage is not the only solution. Like I said earlier, being unmarried does not equate to beeing alone
[Alain’s friend]: then whu would you want to get a partner?
[Alain’s friend]: yourself?
Lain: ha?
[Alain’s friend]: gusto mo din mag asawa right?
Lain: ako oo
[Alain’s friend]: it's the same for him
[Alain’s friend]: ano yung sinabi mong solution sa article? i can't remeber
Lain: gusto ko magasawa pero di ko pa ginagawa kasi ayoko magkamali. nagakamali na sya so he blew his chance. if ganun ganun lang pala yun, lahat na tayo mag-asawa kasi ganun ganun lang naman pala yon. if you say marriage is the only solution to being alone, that would mean you can't have any other intimat friends except for yoir marrige partner
Lain: Hard to be Alone
Lain: Basahin mo para masaya
[Alain’s friend]: ok, intimate friends
[Alain’s friend]: i see your point
[Alain’s friend]: wala akong internet
[Alain’s friend]: can't open that link
[Alain’s friend]: send it to my email, i'll open it in school
[Alain’s friend]: naaawa lang talaga ko sa kanay
[Alain’s friend]: kanya
[Alain’s friend]: kung salbahe lang sya, ok lang hehe
Lain: pero that's bias naman
Lain: God sends rain to both the good and the bad
[Alain’s friend]: i told him i can be a good friend
Lain: And that is perhaps the best that you can offer him
[Alain’s friend]: but i told him to to date
[Alain’s friend]: ladies
[Alain’s friend]: and find a good one
Lain: if may internet ka sa school, open mo na lang dun, I forbid forwarding my article e, only the link may be forwarded. You can ask him to visit. I don't know if it will help, but I'm curious to find out if it will
[Alain’s friend]: but he said, he doesn't want to do that
[Alain’s friend]: yeah, forward the link
Lain: so sa akin yun din iaadvise mo pag lonley ako, magdate ng ladies and find a good one?
[Alain’s friend]: yeah, not bad, no problem sa yo, you're not divorced
Lain: it's like dating and marriage is a cure all for everything that ails, especially loneliness
[Alain’s friend]: mgaChristina na girls
[Alain’s friend]: Christian
[Alain’s friend]: no, that's not what I meant
Lain: no, that's wrong, marriage isn't something done to solve the problem of loneliness...
[Alain’s friend]: but meet people and make relationships
[Alain’s friend]: you don't do it to escape lonliness
[Alain’s friend]: it's not the reason to get married at all
[Alain’s friend]: but i say meet people and make friends
Lain: yes, meet people and make realtionships, but not necessarily date, and not necessarily from the other gender
[Alain’s friend]: that's not bad
[Alain’s friend]: yeah, that's what i meant
[Alain’s friend]: babae, lalake
Lain: yes, if that's the point of view, that's good. You just have to broaden your point of view and not limit the problem of loneliness to marriage
[Alain’s friend]: i never meant that
[Alain’s friend]: angkitid nun
[Alain’s friend]: but i don't think i willbe able to tall him these things directly
[Alain’s friend]: I'm scared to hurt him more
Lain: yeah, but it seemed that's what was making him sad. If being unable to marry causes so much grief in people, imagine others na di rin makahanap nang may magpapakasal sa kanila. Marriage is not the only solution to loneliness and neither is it the purpose of man on Earth. If Jesus and Paul can be happy without being married, so can we.
Lain: We just need to realize that truth, and maybe he does too
[Alain’s friend]: right...
[Alain’s friend]: i'm glad I'm not in love with him
[Alain’s friend]: it will be so hard
Lain: To a certain degree, mas maswerte sya sa iba kasi sya alam na nya how it is to be married, kahit salbahe asawa nya, there must have been at least a few good times. Some of us will never even be able to have that luxury of being happily married even for just a short time
[Alain’s friend]: but i would really want a man like him
Lain: you can try killing his wife
[Alain’s friend]: he was never happy
[Alain’s friend]: being married
[Alain’s friend]: hehe, kill his wife, lol
Lain: that can't be 100% truthful, because if he was never absolutely happy, why did he marry his wife willingly
Lain: absoultely never happy pala
[Alain’s friend]: he thought the girl liked him
Lain: that was his mistake
Lain: but even in his false belief, he must have had at least one happy time with the girl
[Alain’s friend]: i think so too
Lain: so he is more fortunate than a few people who would never be able to enjoy that happiness, na mamatay na di man lang kinasal kahit kelan
[Alain’s friend]: ok lang din yun
[Alain’s friend]: si Jesus at si paul
[Alain’s friend]: di ba?
Lain: Ya, so his problem is not the end of the world
[Alain’s friend]: k...
[Alain’s friend]: enough of him
[Alain’s friend]: thanks
[Alain’s friend]: mas madali pag kausap kita
Lain: thanks. it's good na may nagagawa pa ko mabuti
[Alain’s friend]: of course you do
[Alain’s friend]: with all those ar ticles you write and post, you're doing a lot of good things
[Alain’s friend]: ako ang walang nagagwa
[Alain’s friend]: puro school na lang ako
Lain: gumawa na nga tayo ng mabuti
[Alain’s friend]: yeah
[Alain’s friend]: i wanna serve God...
[Alain’s friend]: do moe for Him
[Alain’s friend]: more
[Alain’s friend]: pero pag nag PhD pa ko.... lalo ng mahirap
Lain: we should start na, dami natin nagagawa dati, balik natin
Lain: ako din pagnagPHD, pero kaya yan, di pwedeng hindi
[Alain’s friend]: yeah, when i change my situation here, I will
[Alain’s friend]: and may times nagkakasala pa ko
[Alain’s friend]: di na nga nagawa ng maganda, nagkakamali pa
Lain: parepareho naman tayo. magbago na lang at bumalik sa dati
[Alain’s friend]: yeah
[Alain’s friend]: kaya dapat ang partner, matatag na Christian din
Lain: oo nga. hirap makakita
[Alain’s friend]: mahirap nga
[Alain’s friend]: andami ko choices here, hehe
Lain: buti ka pa
[Alain’s friend]: pero lagin may major na hindi ko gusto
[Alain’s friend]: yun gusto ko, divorcee naman
Lain: ok lang yon, you can only marry one anyway
[Alain’s friend]: help me choose
[Alain’s friend]: hihi
Lain: pwede rin. meron na bang may sense iconsider?
[Alain’s friend]: oksi [Abcde]
[Alain’s friend]: unbeliver naman
[Alain’s friend]: eliminated
Lain: di pwede yon
[Alain’s friend]: meron Bible teacher, sobrang ok,
[Alain’s friend]: sobrang busy naman, wala ng time, laging nasa church
Lain: Ok pa yon
Lain: pero friends na ba kayo
[Alain’s friend]: but we don't talk
[Alain’s friend]: may trabaho, tapos lagin nasa church at laging nasa nanay at tatay
[Alain’s friend]: yeah we're friends, he's even praying for me
Lain: so nothing to worry about. don't need to rush it
[Alain’s friend]: angaling nya mag gitara at kumanta
[Alain’s friend]: pero kailan pa sya magkakatime?
Lain: you have years to wait
[Alain’s friend]: pero ganun na sya
[Alain’s friend]: he loves the Lord and really loves the ministyr
[Alain’s friend]: ministry
Lain: that's great. Wait ka lang. No need to rush
[Alain’s friend]: gusto pa yata mag pastor at mag mission
[Alain’s friend]: ayoko yata ng pastor, hehe, lol
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Lain: am back
[Alain’s friend]: k
[Alain’s friend]: 56 problems tong take home
[Alain’s friend]: pambihirang dami
[Alain’s friend]: si [Abcde] tutor ko
[Alain’s friend]: ilang gabi naming ginawa
[Alain’s friend]: antalino...
Lain: ok lang yan. dami ko din work
[Alain’s friend]: sana magka time yung Bible teeacher
[Alain’s friend]: wala rin naman pala kong time, hehe
Lain: wait ka lang. di masarap ang mangga pag hinog sa pilit
[Alain’s friend]: tama
[Alain’s friend]: I'm jus wondering kung magkakatime sya
[Alain’s friend]: can't even check his emails
Lain: maybe in the future. di mo din naman alam kung sya nga
[Alain’s friend]: right
[Alain’s friend]: gusto ko lang sya kaibigan
[Alain’s friend]: i mean talking to him...
Lain: yan din lagi ko sinasabi
[Alain’s friend]: mabait din sya...
[Alain’s friend]: he even sang and played the guitar when i requested him to
[Alain’s friend]: and i guess i can listen to him the whole day
[Alain’s friend]: but I'm not really lookin, i'm happy as I am
[Alain’s friend]: may boyfriend at wala, I'm ok
Lain: good. dapat naman
[Alain’s friend]: natutuwa ako sayo
Lain: bakit?
[Alain’s friend]: i can tell you these things
Lain: that's good
[Alain’s friend]: parang pang babae sa babeng magkaibigan ang usapan natin
Lain: ok lang. ok sa kin yon. no problem
[Alain’s friend]: thanks
Lain: di naman ko gender sensitive pag dating sa ganyan
[Alain’s friend]: pero hindi komportable ang ibang lalake pag ganito
[Alain’s friend]: maiinis yung iba
Lain: well, I have an article I haven't written yet about that
[Alain’s friend]: hehe
Lain: dami kong article na di pa nasusulat
[Alain’s friend]: galing mo magsulat,
[Alain’s friend]: dapat ako din
[Alain’s friend]: pero hindi...
Lain: try mo. ako kasi hilig ko kaya ginagawa ko
[Alain’s friend]: i would want it to be my hilig
[Alain’s friend]: pero hindi
[Alain’s friend]: i should have started long time ago
[Alain’s friend]: kaya ang anak ko, dapat masiapg magbasa
[Alain’s friend]: para hecan write too
[Alain’s friend]: kain muna ko
[Alain’s friend]: nalimutan ko na kumain
Lain: ok. mamya kain na din ako. gutom na din ako
[Alain’s friend]: k
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[Alain’s friend]: yes
[Alain’s friend]: finishing this take home exam
[Alain’s friend]: it's justa lot
[Alain’s friend]: how are you...
Lain: now lang ko nakabalik La Salle
[Alain’s friend]: where were you?
Lain: ok lang, dami din ginagawa
Lain: home, doing a few stuff
[Alain’s friend]: I'm sleepy but won't sleep til i finish this
[Alain’s friend]: deadline tomorrow
[Alain’s friend]: final exams next week, kakapagod
[Alain’s friend]: have you read my offline messages
[Alain’s friend]: ?
Lain: ya, just read them
Lain: hard case yung kanya
[Alain’s friend]: he's a really good guy... nagkamali lang, salbahe asawa nya
[Alain’s friend]: naghahanap din sya, he wants to do God's will and been asking people
Lain: although I've answered your questions, I'
Lain: I'm not sure how I can answer his
[Alain’s friend]: pero kung iisipin anghirap ng lagay nya
[Alain’s friend]: kung di sya pwedeng mag asawa uli, mahirap yun, tapos di rin dapat mabuhay sa lust
[Alain’s friend]: I know it's really hard, it would be hard for me being a woman, and i can't imagine it for him being a man
Lain: Actually, although mas mahirap yung case nya, I can relate kasi I've been through similar experiences, as you may tell from my writings
[Alain’s friend]: no
Lain: does he know my site?
[Alain’s friend]: you didn't
[Alain’s friend]: he doesn't know your site
[Alain’s friend]: would you want me to tell him
[Alain’s friend]: ?
Lain: ok lang, we don't know each other
[Alain’s friend]: you were never married
Lain: and that would be why his case is more difficult
[Alain’s friend]: it's totally different, you can't comppare your experiences to his
[Alain’s friend]: and I'm him to be happy
[Alain’s friend]: i won't feel bad if he remarry
Lain: but you're not God
[Alain’s friend]: but God wants us to be happy too i think
Lain: Never to the point we disobey His words
[Alain’s friend]: and i think nabasa ko sa verses na binigay mo
[Alain’s friend]: may exception for infidelity
[Alain’s friend]: i don't know, but it's really hard... to be alone and resist lust
Lain: yung divorce yes, but not for remarriage
[Alain’s friend]: but he's great... he wants to do what is right
Lain: think of it this way, when his wife dies, he can still remarry
[Alain’s friend]: i know
[Alain’s friend]: pero kailngan pang maghintay na magkaganun
[Alain’s friend]: ?
Lain: yup
[Alain’s friend]: i can't see the point
[Alain’s friend]: anong reason ng Lord then?
Lain: it's to preserve the sanctity of marriage. It's either that or no sanctity at all. I prefer God's point of view
[Alain’s friend]: on things like this, like when I don't know what to do, i use my discenment, and when I see my churchmates here happily remaaried, i feel happy about them
[Alain’s friend]: of course we should prefer God's pt of view
[Alain’s friend]: medyo guilty din ako kasi dahil sa sinabi ko sakanya, isip sya ng isip, na hindi na nga pwedeng mag asawa at mag iisa na lang
[Alain’s friend]: kausap daw nya yung kaopisina nya, remarried, sabi nya mas mahirap kung mabubuhay sa lust
Lain: you only use discernment if there is no clear rule in the Bible; but as I showed you, the verses are direct, divorce may be allowed, but not remarriage while the partner is still aliove
Lain: one sin is no better than another
[Alain’s friend]: should i tell him these things?
[Alain’s friend]: lalo kolang sinasaktan yung tao
[Alain’s friend]: should I just stop talking to him, i guess that's mean
Lain: should you warn a person that the bridge is out even if it hurts his feelings? yes
Lain: there are more to this life than marriage, you can be unalone but unmarried
[Alain’s friend]: iba naman situation ito
[Alain’s friend]: pag sinabihan mo yung nasa bingit , na delikado, matutuwa yun
[Alain’s friend]: pero ito hindi matutuwa
[Alain’s friend]: pero dun sa article mo, iba sinabi mo
[Alain’s friend]: na it's hard ot be alone
Lain: that's what you think. nasa bingit din sya na magdesisyon ng mali na gugulo sa buong buhay nya
Lain: yup, it's hard to be alone, pero hindi naman marriage ang inoffer kung solution dun ha? remember?
[Alain’s friend]: and now you're saying it's ok to be alone
[Alain’s friend]: ano?
Lain: it's not ok to be alone, but marriage is not the only solution. Like I said earlier, being unmarried does not equate to beeing alone
[Alain’s friend]: then whu would you want to get a partner?
[Alain’s friend]: yourself?
Lain: ha?
[Alain’s friend]: gusto mo din mag asawa right?
Lain: ako oo
[Alain’s friend]: it's the same for him
[Alain’s friend]: ano yung sinabi mong solution sa article? i can't remeber
Lain: gusto ko magasawa pero di ko pa ginagawa kasi ayoko magkamali. nagakamali na sya so he blew his chance. if ganun ganun lang pala yun, lahat na tayo mag-asawa kasi ganun ganun lang naman pala yon. if you say marriage is the only solution to being alone, that would mean you can't have any other intimat friends except for yoir marrige partner
Lain: Hard to be Alone
Lain: Basahin mo para masaya
[Alain’s friend]: ok, intimate friends
[Alain’s friend]: i see your point
[Alain’s friend]: wala akong internet
[Alain’s friend]: can't open that link
[Alain’s friend]: send it to my email, i'll open it in school
[Alain’s friend]: naaawa lang talaga ko sa kanay
[Alain’s friend]: kanya
[Alain’s friend]: kung salbahe lang sya, ok lang hehe
Lain: pero that's bias naman
Lain: God sends rain to both the good and the bad
[Alain’s friend]: i told him i can be a good friend
Lain: And that is perhaps the best that you can offer him
[Alain’s friend]: but i told him to to date
[Alain’s friend]: ladies
[Alain’s friend]: and find a good one
Lain: if may internet ka sa school, open mo na lang dun, I forbid forwarding my article e, only the link may be forwarded. You can ask him to visit. I don't know if it will help, but I'm curious to find out if it will
[Alain’s friend]: but he said, he doesn't want to do that
[Alain’s friend]: yeah, forward the link
Lain: so sa akin yun din iaadvise mo pag lonley ako, magdate ng ladies and find a good one?
[Alain’s friend]: yeah, not bad, no problem sa yo, you're not divorced
Lain: it's like dating and marriage is a cure all for everything that ails, especially loneliness
[Alain’s friend]: mgaChristina na girls
[Alain’s friend]: Christian
[Alain’s friend]: no, that's not what I meant
Lain: no, that's wrong, marriage isn't something done to solve the problem of loneliness...
[Alain’s friend]: but meet people and make relationships
[Alain’s friend]: you don't do it to escape lonliness
[Alain’s friend]: it's not the reason to get married at all
[Alain’s friend]: but i say meet people and make friends
Lain: yes, meet people and make realtionships, but not necessarily date, and not necessarily from the other gender
[Alain’s friend]: that's not bad
[Alain’s friend]: yeah, that's what i meant
[Alain’s friend]: babae, lalake
Lain: yes, if that's the point of view, that's good. You just have to broaden your point of view and not limit the problem of loneliness to marriage
[Alain’s friend]: i never meant that
[Alain’s friend]: angkitid nun
[Alain’s friend]: but i don't think i willbe able to tall him these things directly
[Alain’s friend]: I'm scared to hurt him more
Lain: yeah, but it seemed that's what was making him sad. If being unable to marry causes so much grief in people, imagine others na di rin makahanap nang may magpapakasal sa kanila. Marriage is not the only solution to loneliness and neither is it the purpose of man on Earth. If Jesus and Paul can be happy without being married, so can we.
Lain: We just need to realize that truth, and maybe he does too
[Alain’s friend]: right...
[Alain’s friend]: i'm glad I'm not in love with him
[Alain’s friend]: it will be so hard
Lain: To a certain degree, mas maswerte sya sa iba kasi sya alam na nya how it is to be married, kahit salbahe asawa nya, there must have been at least a few good times. Some of us will never even be able to have that luxury of being happily married even for just a short time
[Alain’s friend]: but i would really want a man like him
Lain: you can try killing his wife
[Alain’s friend]: he was never happy
[Alain’s friend]: being married
[Alain’s friend]: hehe, kill his wife, lol
Lain: that can't be 100% truthful, because if he was never absolutely happy, why did he marry his wife willingly
Lain: absoultely never happy pala
[Alain’s friend]: he thought the girl liked him
Lain: that was his mistake
Lain: but even in his false belief, he must have had at least one happy time with the girl
[Alain’s friend]: i think so too
Lain: so he is more fortunate than a few people who would never be able to enjoy that happiness, na mamatay na di man lang kinasal kahit kelan
[Alain’s friend]: ok lang din yun
[Alain’s friend]: si Jesus at si paul
[Alain’s friend]: di ba?
Lain: Ya, so his problem is not the end of the world
[Alain’s friend]: k...
[Alain’s friend]: enough of him
[Alain’s friend]: thanks
[Alain’s friend]: mas madali pag kausap kita
Lain: thanks. it's good na may nagagawa pa ko mabuti
[Alain’s friend]: of course you do
[Alain’s friend]: with all those ar ticles you write and post, you're doing a lot of good things
[Alain’s friend]: ako ang walang nagagwa
[Alain’s friend]: puro school na lang ako
Lain: gumawa na nga tayo ng mabuti
[Alain’s friend]: yeah
[Alain’s friend]: i wanna serve God...
[Alain’s friend]: do moe for Him
[Alain’s friend]: more
[Alain’s friend]: pero pag nag PhD pa ko.... lalo ng mahirap
Lain: we should start na, dami natin nagagawa dati, balik natin
Lain: ako din pagnagPHD, pero kaya yan, di pwedeng hindi
[Alain’s friend]: yeah, when i change my situation here, I will
[Alain’s friend]: and may times nagkakasala pa ko
[Alain’s friend]: di na nga nagawa ng maganda, nagkakamali pa
Lain: parepareho naman tayo. magbago na lang at bumalik sa dati
[Alain’s friend]: yeah
[Alain’s friend]: kaya dapat ang partner, matatag na Christian din
Lain: oo nga. hirap makakita
[Alain’s friend]: mahirap nga
[Alain’s friend]: andami ko choices here, hehe
Lain: buti ka pa
[Alain’s friend]: pero lagin may major na hindi ko gusto
[Alain’s friend]: yun gusto ko, divorcee naman
Lain: ok lang yon, you can only marry one anyway
[Alain’s friend]: help me choose
[Alain’s friend]: hihi
Lain: pwede rin. meron na bang may sense iconsider?
[Alain’s friend]: oksi [Abcde]
[Alain’s friend]: unbeliver naman
[Alain’s friend]: eliminated
Lain: di pwede yon
[Alain’s friend]: meron Bible teacher, sobrang ok,
[Alain’s friend]: sobrang busy naman, wala ng time, laging nasa church
Lain: Ok pa yon
Lain: pero friends na ba kayo
[Alain’s friend]: but we don't talk
[Alain’s friend]: may trabaho, tapos lagin nasa church at laging nasa nanay at tatay
[Alain’s friend]: yeah we're friends, he's even praying for me
Lain: so nothing to worry about. don't need to rush it
[Alain’s friend]: angaling nya mag gitara at kumanta
[Alain’s friend]: pero kailan pa sya magkakatime?
Lain: you have years to wait
[Alain’s friend]: pero ganun na sya
[Alain’s friend]: he loves the Lord and really loves the ministyr
[Alain’s friend]: ministry
Lain: that's great. Wait ka lang. No need to rush
[Alain’s friend]: gusto pa yata mag pastor at mag mission
[Alain’s friend]: ayoko yata ng pastor, hehe, lol
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Lain: am back
[Alain’s friend]: k
[Alain’s friend]: 56 problems tong take home
[Alain’s friend]: pambihirang dami
[Alain’s friend]: si [Abcde] tutor ko
[Alain’s friend]: ilang gabi naming ginawa
[Alain’s friend]: antalino...
Lain: ok lang yan. dami ko din work
[Alain’s friend]: sana magka time yung Bible teeacher
[Alain’s friend]: wala rin naman pala kong time, hehe
Lain: wait ka lang. di masarap ang mangga pag hinog sa pilit
[Alain’s friend]: tama
[Alain’s friend]: I'm jus wondering kung magkakatime sya
[Alain’s friend]: can't even check his emails
Lain: maybe in the future. di mo din naman alam kung sya nga
[Alain’s friend]: right
[Alain’s friend]: gusto ko lang sya kaibigan
[Alain’s friend]: i mean talking to him...
Lain: yan din lagi ko sinasabi
[Alain’s friend]: mabait din sya...
[Alain’s friend]: he even sang and played the guitar when i requested him to
[Alain’s friend]: and i guess i can listen to him the whole day
[Alain’s friend]: but I'm not really lookin, i'm happy as I am
[Alain’s friend]: may boyfriend at wala, I'm ok
Lain: good. dapat naman
[Alain’s friend]: natutuwa ako sayo
Lain: bakit?
[Alain’s friend]: i can tell you these things
Lain: that's good
[Alain’s friend]: parang pang babae sa babeng magkaibigan ang usapan natin
Lain: ok lang. ok sa kin yon. no problem
[Alain’s friend]: thanks
Lain: di naman ko gender sensitive pag dating sa ganyan
[Alain’s friend]: pero hindi komportable ang ibang lalake pag ganito
[Alain’s friend]: maiinis yung iba
Lain: well, I have an article I haven't written yet about that
[Alain’s friend]: hehe
Lain: dami kong article na di pa nasusulat
[Alain’s friend]: galing mo magsulat,
[Alain’s friend]: dapat ako din
[Alain’s friend]: pero hindi...
Lain: try mo. ako kasi hilig ko kaya ginagawa ko
[Alain’s friend]: i would want it to be my hilig
[Alain’s friend]: pero hindi
[Alain’s friend]: i should have started long time ago
[Alain’s friend]: kaya ang anak ko, dapat masiapg magbasa
[Alain’s friend]: para hecan write too
[Alain’s friend]: kain muna ko
[Alain’s friend]: nalimutan ko na kumain
Lain: ok. mamya kain na din ako. gutom na din ako
[Alain’s friend]: k
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