about future-marriage male-female relationships, etc.
Lain: yo!
[Alain's friend]: ey bro. musta class? don ba yung cute na kwento mo? send mo naman pic =)
Lain: yup. wala ko pic e
[Alain's friend]: hingi ka, scan mo. he he
Lain: ngaa. wag na
[Alain's friend]: kaya mo yan, don't be shy... fate is building a bridge of opportunity for the one we love... naks
Lain: says who
[Alain's friend]: sabi nung mama sa pelikula. di ko nakuha name eh, sorry. he he
Lain: di totoo yun
[Alain's friend]: up to a certain degree, totoo sya. =)
Lain: hindi ah
[Alain's friend]: totoo.
Lain: hindi ah
Lain: hindi ah
[Alain's friend]: parang yung saying na he who fails to plan, plans to fail... parang... great opportunities don't always fall on our lap. pag minsan lalapit lang sya, close enough for us to attempt to grab. but if we let that chance pass by, we may have lost the opportunity forever
Lain: naks
[Alain's friend]: quotable na ba? by [Alain's friend] copyright [year kept secret]
[Alain's friend]:
Lain: pero hindi close enough to grab e... pwede lang i-grab ng sapilitan
[Alain's friend]: ikaw. kng san ka masaya. =)
Lain: blog ka tungkol dyan
[Alain's friend]: i really think there's nothing wrong if we make a move. we're wise enough naman to know when n when not to
[Alain's friend]: di ba?
Lain: yes, kaya nga we don't kasi nga "we're wise enough naman to know when n WHEN NOT TO"
[Alain's friend]: saka baka magkaroon ng deadlock. attitude kasi ng females is to be passive, demure effect, kahit gusto2. kasi they are hoping that the guy will make a move. up paramdam lang sila. if we don't respond definitively, she'll think we're not interested, kahit mahurt sya.
Lain: totoo ba yan
Lain: pabasa ko kaya sa katabi ko yung pinag-uusapan natin, ok lang?
[Alain's friend]: sige ikaw, pabasa mo. bahala ka. =)
[Alain's friend]: ba't tagalmo reply
[Alain's friend]: ...
BUZZ!!!
Lain: ha? ako? ikaw nga kanina ko pa hinihintay e
Lain: naputol yata internet namin, di kasi ko nagiinternet e
[Alain's friend]: naputol din ata amin. kasi pansin ko bigla nagpop up lahat messages
BUZZ!!!
Lain: baka pareho tayo
[Alain's friend]: what do you think don sabi ko. agree ka na? =)
Lain: not sure. kaya nga I wanted to get a second opinion. Babae katabi ko e
[Alain's friend]: sige, what say nya? reasonable ba ang aking hypothesis? yung ang aking conjecture, hanggang conjecture lang kasi di naman ako babae at di naman ako gay. he he =)
Lain: the gist of it is: you still need signals from the girl, any kind of signal, even if if its subtle, but if there seems to be no signal, then no go
Lain: what do you think?
[Alain's friend]: yon sabi ng girl? seems fair enough... =)
Lain: yeah sabi nya, conclusion ko din
[Alain's friend]: parang ganon din naman ang sabi ko ah... the sum total of it all... =)
Lain: hindi ah, sa yo kahit wala signal, go pa din, wag lang masayang opportunity
[Alain's friend]: di ah. sabi ko opportunity, lalapit close enough for us to lay hold of.. yun yon, kaw naman oh. =)
Lain: even if you get close enough, pag wala pa signal, no go pa rin
[Alain's friend]: yun nga yong close enough eh, yung pag may signal. that was what I had in mind when i wrote it. kaya nga close enough eh. di ba =)
[Alain's friend]: basta, kung ala signal, di close enough yon. kung may signal mejo lapit lapit na yon. kung nanliligaw na yung girl, yun yung nagfall sa iyong lap (depends still if you wanna catch ). clear? =)
[Alain's friend]: basta, parang ganon ang nasa isip ko nina
Lain: ah, if that's what you mean by close enough, e di go. pwede naman kasi maging close na wala pa din signal e
[Alain's friend]: hmmm... as in close friends? pede nga. pero friends lang, until someone starts to give signals. then either pede di na friends... sila na or masira yung friendship. or pede friends pa din.
Lain: yeah, ok sa kin yon
[Alain's friend]: so it's like some process of escalation. at first maybe the male could give slight hints of deep interest with the girl. the girl responds back also with hints. if the male perceives that as a go signal, he makes more definite moves. ideally the process would go to a level where both will be able to get to know each other deeper and if all turns out right, it will end with a meaningful relationship
[Alain's friend]: in summary, males responsibility is to make the definite moves. females to give hints. coz in the first place male cannot make moves without perceptible signals from the female. otherwise, it maybe too awkward for the male
Lain: iba yung maybe sa may be
[Alain's friend]: saan?
Lain: pero I dont think its necessary for males to give deinite moves while there are no signals, so in part, the signal giving of interest is mutual
Lain: "it maybe too awkward for the male"
[Alain's friend]: both have an equal role to play to establish the relationship. no overemphasis on the side of male to initiate. and on the female to just expect.
[Alain's friend]: so thats it? =)
Lain: yes, that's my point. "no overemphasis on the side of male to initiate."
[Alain's friend]: nasave mo ba? gawa tayo blog =)
[Alain's friend]: equal responsibility. =)
Lain: gusto mo? save natin, tapos post natin
Lain: yep, equal responsibility
[Alain's friend]: di ko nasave lahat eh. open pa lahat sa yo?
Lain: yep. sige save ko
Lain: gawan natin blog?
[Alain's friend]: either gawin natin blog or ipost natin conversation (with cuts of course) =)
[Alain's friend]: sige. cool =)
[Alain's friend]: taglish pala.. i-process pa natin para mas ganda =)
Lain: which do you prefer? post sa blog mo o gawan natin bago where we can post other of our conversations later
Lain: kahit provide-an lang natin translation
[Alain's friend]: lagyan natin ng drama, setting, imagery, para kakaiba effect... artistic.. =)
Lain: ngek, too much naman yon
[Alain's friend]: too much nga ata.. he he
[Alain's friend]: sige kahit translation lang muna.. pede ma-evolve later on. pedeng tig-isa tayo post in each of our blog. tapos link na lang sites natin =)
Lain: as is na, cut yung irrelevant parts, may translation yung tagalog
[Alain's friend]: yung conversations din natin about reeds!!! =) may copy ka pa?
[Alain's friend]: sige, translate na lang. send mo akin copy. file =)
[Alain's friend]: grabe.. siguro next tym pag nagcoconverse tayo sa alabang or elsewhere, meron tayong recorder. ganda din iba discussions natin pag minsan di ba? =)
Lain: meron ba tayo natin? oral naman yun e
[Alain's friend]: wag na yon. hirap pala yon
Lain: gawan ba natin bago blog ito? link-an na lang natin
[Alain's friend]: pede din =) sige.
Lain: what you wanna name it?
[Alain's friend]: Over a cup of coffee... ??
[Alain's friend]: k lang ba? coffee-cup discussions...
[Alain's friend]: pero di naman tayo nagkakape pag nag-kukuwentuhan eh...
[Alain's friend]: but it gives an imagery
[Alain's friend]: coffe-cup conversations... hmmm seems to sound nice...
Lain: how about Yahoo Messenger Conversations by Two
Lain: Two what?
[Alain's friend]: handsome and intelligent dudes.. haw haw haw! =)
Lain: baka wala na magbasa nung blog
[Alain's friend]: The Yahoo Messenger Chronicles...
[Alain's friend]: masyadong general.. baka isipin nila kaninong YM? he he
Lain: dapat may patungkol sa atin
Lain: wala pa ideas?
[Alain's friend]: ala pa. itulog ko muna, baka mapanaginipan ko . =)
Lain: Corny naman kung Yahoo Messnger Conversations by [Alain's friend's first name] and Alain
Lain: How about YM conversations by YM
[Alain's friend]: ey bro. tom na lang uwi. have to go home na... =) God bless!!! =)
Lain: ok. God bless
[Alain's friend] has signed out. ([month kept secret]/[day kept secret]/[year kept secret] 5:04 PM)
[Alain's friend]: ey bro. musta class? don ba yung cute na kwento mo? send mo naman pic =)
Lain: yup. wala ko pic e
[Alain's friend]: hingi ka, scan mo. he he
Lain: ngaa. wag na
[Alain's friend]: kaya mo yan, don't be shy... fate is building a bridge of opportunity for the one we love... naks
Lain: says who
[Alain's friend]: sabi nung mama sa pelikula. di ko nakuha name eh, sorry. he he
Lain: di totoo yun
[Alain's friend]: up to a certain degree, totoo sya. =)
Lain: hindi ah
[Alain's friend]: totoo.
Lain: hindi ah
Lain: hindi ah
[Alain's friend]: parang yung saying na he who fails to plan, plans to fail... parang... great opportunities don't always fall on our lap. pag minsan lalapit lang sya, close enough for us to attempt to grab. but if we let that chance pass by, we may have lost the opportunity forever
Lain: naks
[Alain's friend]: quotable na ba? by [Alain's friend] copyright [year kept secret]
[Alain's friend]:
Lain: pero hindi close enough to grab e... pwede lang i-grab ng sapilitan
[Alain's friend]: ikaw. kng san ka masaya. =)
Lain: blog ka tungkol dyan
[Alain's friend]: i really think there's nothing wrong if we make a move. we're wise enough naman to know when n when not to
[Alain's friend]: di ba?
Lain: yes, kaya nga we don't kasi nga "we're wise enough naman to know when n WHEN NOT TO"
[Alain's friend]: saka baka magkaroon ng deadlock. attitude kasi ng females is to be passive, demure effect, kahit gusto2. kasi they are hoping that the guy will make a move. up paramdam lang sila. if we don't respond definitively, she'll think we're not interested, kahit mahurt sya.
Lain: totoo ba yan
Lain: pabasa ko kaya sa katabi ko yung pinag-uusapan natin, ok lang?
[Alain's friend]: sige ikaw, pabasa mo. bahala ka. =)
[Alain's friend]: ba't tagalmo reply
[Alain's friend]: ...
BUZZ!!!
Lain: ha? ako? ikaw nga kanina ko pa hinihintay e
Lain: naputol yata internet namin, di kasi ko nagiinternet e
[Alain's friend]: naputol din ata amin. kasi pansin ko bigla nagpop up lahat messages
BUZZ!!!
Lain: baka pareho tayo
[Alain's friend]: what do you think don sabi ko. agree ka na? =)
Lain: not sure. kaya nga I wanted to get a second opinion. Babae katabi ko e
[Alain's friend]: sige, what say nya? reasonable ba ang aking hypothesis? yung ang aking conjecture, hanggang conjecture lang kasi di naman ako babae at di naman ako gay. he he =)
Lain: the gist of it is: you still need signals from the girl, any kind of signal, even if if its subtle, but if there seems to be no signal, then no go
Lain: what do you think?
[Alain's friend]: yon sabi ng girl? seems fair enough... =)
Lain: yeah sabi nya, conclusion ko din
[Alain's friend]: parang ganon din naman ang sabi ko ah... the sum total of it all... =)
Lain: hindi ah, sa yo kahit wala signal, go pa din, wag lang masayang opportunity
[Alain's friend]: di ah. sabi ko opportunity, lalapit close enough for us to lay hold of.. yun yon, kaw naman oh. =)
Lain: even if you get close enough, pag wala pa signal, no go pa rin
[Alain's friend]: yun nga yong close enough eh, yung pag may signal. that was what I had in mind when i wrote it. kaya nga close enough eh. di ba =)
[Alain's friend]: basta, kung ala signal, di close enough yon. kung may signal mejo lapit lapit na yon. kung nanliligaw na yung girl, yun yung nagfall sa iyong lap (depends still if you wanna catch ). clear? =)
[Alain's friend]: basta, parang ganon ang nasa isip ko nina
Lain: ah, if that's what you mean by close enough, e di go. pwede naman kasi maging close na wala pa din signal e
[Alain's friend]: hmmm... as in close friends? pede nga. pero friends lang, until someone starts to give signals. then either pede di na friends... sila na or masira yung friendship. or pede friends pa din.
Lain: yeah, ok sa kin yon
[Alain's friend]: so it's like some process of escalation. at first maybe the male could give slight hints of deep interest with the girl. the girl responds back also with hints. if the male perceives that as a go signal, he makes more definite moves. ideally the process would go to a level where both will be able to get to know each other deeper and if all turns out right, it will end with a meaningful relationship
[Alain's friend]: in summary, males responsibility is to make the definite moves. females to give hints. coz in the first place male cannot make moves without perceptible signals from the female. otherwise, it maybe too awkward for the male
Lain: iba yung maybe sa may be
[Alain's friend]: saan?
Lain: pero I dont think its necessary for males to give deinite moves while there are no signals, so in part, the signal giving of interest is mutual
Lain: "it maybe too awkward for the male"
[Alain's friend]: both have an equal role to play to establish the relationship. no overemphasis on the side of male to initiate. and on the female to just expect.
[Alain's friend]: so thats it? =)
Lain: yes, that's my point. "no overemphasis on the side of male to initiate."
[Alain's friend]: nasave mo ba? gawa tayo blog =)
[Alain's friend]: equal responsibility. =)
Lain: gusto mo? save natin, tapos post natin
Lain: yep, equal responsibility
[Alain's friend]: di ko nasave lahat eh. open pa lahat sa yo?
Lain: yep. sige save ko
Lain: gawan natin blog?
[Alain's friend]: either gawin natin blog or ipost natin conversation (with cuts of course) =)
[Alain's friend]: sige. cool =)
[Alain's friend]: taglish pala.. i-process pa natin para mas ganda =)
Lain: which do you prefer? post sa blog mo o gawan natin bago where we can post other of our conversations later
Lain: kahit provide-an lang natin translation
[Alain's friend]: lagyan natin ng drama, setting, imagery, para kakaiba effect... artistic.. =)
Lain: ngek, too much naman yon
[Alain's friend]: too much nga ata.. he he
[Alain's friend]: sige kahit translation lang muna.. pede ma-evolve later on. pedeng tig-isa tayo post in each of our blog. tapos link na lang sites natin =)
Lain: as is na, cut yung irrelevant parts, may translation yung tagalog
[Alain's friend]: yung conversations din natin about reeds!!! =) may copy ka pa?
[Alain's friend]: sige, translate na lang. send mo akin copy. file =)
[Alain's friend]: grabe.. siguro next tym pag nagcoconverse tayo sa alabang or elsewhere, meron tayong recorder. ganda din iba discussions natin pag minsan di ba? =)
Lain: meron ba tayo natin? oral naman yun e
[Alain's friend]: wag na yon. hirap pala yon
Lain: gawan ba natin bago blog ito? link-an na lang natin
[Alain's friend]: pede din =) sige.
Lain: what you wanna name it?
[Alain's friend]: Over a cup of coffee... ??
[Alain's friend]: k lang ba? coffee-cup discussions...
[Alain's friend]: pero di naman tayo nagkakape pag nag-kukuwentuhan eh...
[Alain's friend]: but it gives an imagery
[Alain's friend]: coffe-cup conversations... hmmm seems to sound nice...
Lain: how about Yahoo Messenger Conversations by Two
Lain: Two what?
[Alain's friend]: handsome and intelligent dudes.. haw haw haw! =)
Lain: baka wala na magbasa nung blog
[Alain's friend]: The Yahoo Messenger Chronicles...
[Alain's friend]: masyadong general.. baka isipin nila kaninong YM? he he
Lain: dapat may patungkol sa atin
Lain: wala pa ideas?
[Alain's friend]: ala pa. itulog ko muna, baka mapanaginipan ko . =)
Lain: Corny naman kung Yahoo Messnger Conversations by [Alain's friend's first name] and Alain
Lain: How about YM conversations by YM
[Alain's friend]: ey bro. tom na lang uwi. have to go home na... =) God bless!!! =)
Lain: ok. God bless
[Alain's friend] has signed out. ([month kept secret]/[day kept secret]/[year kept secret] 5:04 PM)
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